there was a time in my life when girl friends came first…before boys, before family, before me. i would do anything for my friends. in my eyes, they were my world and therefore i was a damn good friend. the kind of friend who would make picture collages just because. the friend who always made sure to buy gifts and cards for lebarans and birthdays. the friend who would fight if it meant having my friend’s back. i was
that friend…until those same “friend” broke my heart.
Lesson learened!! girls can be deceiving, malicious, bitchy, jealous and if you’re like me then you’ve already learned the hard way. we can complain about it and wonder why we don’t have more girl friends but the fact is there will always be girls like that, no matter how old we get. so do we continue to bitch about it or learn from it?
these days, i’ll admit i’m a hard person to get to know. i let very few people in. i trust little. i cannot handle bullshit. if the friendship is one sided, i’m out! super needy friends make me vomit. crazies don’t have a place in my life. i like competition but not amongst friends (unless we’re playing
uno, then it’s on). i hate liars and yes i judge.
sounds harsh, i know, but being this way protects my heart and allows me to eliminate those that fake the funk while holding on to the ones that matter. in the end, it's all about the friendships that will last forever...
forever friends...even if it’s a select few.
real friends are better than more friends.
{and just so you know, i’m a damn good forever friend}
xoxo, Anissa.
